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It was a pharmacist for fifty years he was centric humanitarian person into

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very curious...so the fan club we say.

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After abby parties father jerry mandel passed away from covert nineteen

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...late march one of the first thing she did was try to get close for him to

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where at his funeral they wouldn't be able to shake him they would be able to

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...hand they have developed by assume back and over...I assume that this is

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...placed close mandela and his wife lived in a senior resident apartment in

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nevada it's not clear how

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we contracted the virus is decline was swift.

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I knew...breathing machine that it was over and I couldn't even be there

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...saying to talk to him as if ironing except for the last fifteen minutes

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from adversary...normally when you have

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...families are...most families were kind of views

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...I and I feel like my family didn't get an opportunity

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with social distancing and stay-at-home measures in place families are mourning their

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loved ones in ways they never magic we're not going to have a ceremony inside chapel

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or anything we're limited to the...less...we by people.

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My step-mother who is now in quarantine home was not able to be

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...is, you know,my starter was face training her and she saidstaunch you

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hear her crying and sobbing saying...forge...you know, how

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...years...even be there we can even...each other and console each

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...general because...thomas devil and lost his mother

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to varying cancer in late march as the extent of the corona virus crisis

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was becoming clear and you know, we were talking about funeral plans with my siblings

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...my dad had a conference call with this five siblings

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...he'd spoken to the funeral home in connecticut the day in light of the situation had

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...keep us have a small family gatherings

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fifty at the funeral home by the next day we start which was thursday

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...started to see anxiety?

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...that called couple the other siblings until not come at

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that point instead they held a much smaller service and

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street on baseball team family and friends from around the world watched

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...capturing everyone was born october twenty fourth nineteen

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forty eight been on the other side of the variance of those and get there but

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then having my kids with me my...maybe feel like...a part of another thing

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...site...just general have a sister in ohio that wasn't going to be able to

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come in she was so apples that she got to participate...lives...

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in some ways the way you can funeral which did not happen at young...happen at church

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...was intimacy of being with my five

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so my four siblings and my dad and just the grandchildren that we

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one of experience in a normal setting it's, you know,...probably, you know,

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if we...again I...you do a normal service exception but in light of

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the situation it was it was a good solution and if this

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happened today I'm not even sure we...been able to gather.

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...scenes playing out across the country.

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In this maryland funeral home

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virtual wakes in funerals have become the norm so we've tried to make it as

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easy as possible to take care of all the signatures

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that are required to take care of the selection of the cascade

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...an urn andflowers and we will take

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a clergy with us to a

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great side and videotape or even if it was here

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...chapel we could videotape and have a few prayers and stream

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We just asked people please stay.

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Heavy pretty still hopes to have a proper memorial for her dad someday...

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that closure, you know, you need to be able to...closure actually your father was it was

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if...current prepare for me...ethically human dignity...you know,

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I feel like I failed him somehow because they could.

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Do that for him?